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“No One Told You Life Was Gonna Be This Way”: A Qualitative Exploration of Friendship Expectations and Reality in University Life

Michael Priestley Orcid Logo, Hannah Rachael Slack Orcid Logo, Miss Madiha Islam, Delia Fuhrmann Orcid Logo, Emily Long Orcid Logo, Sarah Crook Orcid Logo, Juliet Foster Orcid Logo, Sophie Homer Orcid Logo, Nicola Byrom Orcid Logo

Journal of Adolescence, Volume: 97, Issue: 5, Pages: 1225 - 1235

Swansea University Author: Sarah Crook Orcid Logo

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Introduction: Young adulthood (ages 18–25) is a high‐risk period for loneliness, particularly during educational transitions. Loneliness has negative consequences for mental health, physical health, and educational achievement. Psychologists conceptualize loneliness as emerging from a discrepancy be...

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